If you have tried every sex position there is or doing it in the most unusual places yet you still lack the fiery desire that you are looking for, then it is time to turn to kinky sex. Kinky sex is a little bit more out of your comfort zone and you feel awkward or uncomfortable of doing it, then it is best that you should wait for the right moment to get you in condition.
Surprising your man with sex toys, vibrators, lingerie and the right sexual attitude might get the satisfaction that you both want in sex and your relationship. However, you must see to it that your man is the type who is open to being kinky. Here are some ways (for beginners) on how to be kinky in bed?
- Anal Sex. This kind of kink needs to be done slowly in order to avoid any painful experiences in your sex session. Before committing to this sort of kink, try on small butt plugs if it’s your first time to have anal sex. After several weeks, you can move on to larger ones to help your backdoor cope up with the stretching its going to get in bed. Always use lube to make it less painful for you and him.
- G-Spot Stimulation. G-spots are not exclusive to women, males also have a g-spot but they can sometimes be hard to reach. To do so, massage his anus and penetrate it slowly while keeping your palm upward and making a “come here” motion with your index finger. By this time, you are stimulating his prostate which can give him the intense orgasms that he is looking for. You can double it up by giving him a BJ while doing so.
- S&M. Don’t bring out your diapers, latex outfits and whips just yet. For beginners, S&M can seem a little bit awkward but if done correctly and with the right attitude, it can be a kinky way to have sex. S&M is all about the tease. You can tie him up on your bedpost; lick his body from his nipples all the way down. You can give him oral sex or ride him and by time he is ready to ejaculate, you can immediately stop for the tease. If he had had enough, you can let him go and give him full access to you. You will submit to his every whim and go full on.
- Porn fantasies. Every man had always wanted to have sex like a porn star. You can watch hardcore porn before you have sex or while masturbating together. It can be really awkward at first, but if you’re game enough, mimicking a porn star can be easy. He can make you squirt and go a little bit naughty by filming it.
- Role playing/ Lingerie. This is probably the easiest one on the list. Role playing and lingerie play can be your kind of thing in kinky sex. As far as your imagination can take you, you can take up a role in a scene where you end up having sex. There are many scenarios in which you can reenact such as the French maid, student - teacher, serviceman - horny wife, etc. For lingerie, sexy and revealing lingerie can be a way for them to feel sexy and horny at the same time. Find the right type of lingerie for you and it will take you all the way in kinky sex play.
- Sex Toys. It can be a little bit awkward buying a vibrator or a dildo for the first time but if you aim to please your man and yourself, then go ahead and do it. You can use sex toys for your S&M fantasies; masturbate in front of him or together. Sex toys is a classic way of being kinky. Toys for him and her are always available at local kink shops.
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